Purina Better With Pets Summit Reinforces the Positive Child-Pet Relationship

The bond between children and pets is a subject for which I'm particularly passionate. I've written about cats and kids for a few years, and my family is living proof that growing up with pets builds responsibility and nurtures compassion. Who doesn't want more responsible, compassionate people in the world? I know I do.

An older photo of my two kids with Saffy and Phoebe

When I attended the Nestlé Purina Better with Pets Summit earlier this month, I was thrilled to learn there would be a panel on the very subject of my passion! I knew they'd be preaching to the choir with me in the audience, but I loved that everyone else in the crowd would hear what I already knew deep within my heart: pets can change kids' lives in many wonderful ways.

The expert panel included:

Jayne Vitale (moderator) -- Director of Outreach/Youth Development Programs at Mutt-i-grees

Stasha Becker -- mom, blogger, dog lover, and Instagrammer

Ilana Reisner -- veterinary and behavior consultant

Charley Bednarsh -- Director of Children's Services, NYC Family Justice Center in Brooklyn

Becker, Reisner, and Bednarsh (L-R)

I especially enjoyed hearing about Bednarsh's experiences using dogs as therapy animals for anxious children facing difficult legal situations in court. I've read a lot about pets positively affecting anxiety, depression, and even heart issues. It makes a ton of sense that the legal system would tap into the healing power of animals. I hope this example increases awareness and shows others that pets can have a powerful impact on helping kids (and adults) feel calmer and more stable during times of distress. 

In addition to their ability to ease anxiety and improve overall physical and mental health, pets also teach responsibility. Of course, this means adults need to be engaged and make sure children are doing age-appropriate pet-related tasks, and are well-trained in properly handling their pets. For example, a 3-year-old child can scoop food into a dish, but you probably wouldn't want to ask that same child to walk a 100-lb Black Lab or clean a litter box. 

Responsible, respectful, pet-loving adults don't just happen -- they have to start somewhere. As adults, it's our obligation to pass these skills, passions, and priorities on to the next generation. 

I was compensated to help spread the word about Purina Better With Pets Summit. Catladyland only shares information we think would be of interest to our readers. The opinions are our own.

Dangly Cat Legs and Best Friends

Phoebe and my teenage son are the best of friends. She loves hanging out in his room, and parks herself in spots where she can sleep, but also keep a watchful eye on him. You know, there's a pretty good chance he'll drop snacks on the floor. #truefriendship

And then there's the bonus leg-dangle. I mean, c'mon! I want to be best friends with that leg. Ridiculous.

#AdoptaCatMonth : What to Consider Before Bringing a Cat into a Home With Children

June is Adopt-a-Cat month, and I decided to write about something for which I feel a ton of passion: kids and cats. During my five years blogging and freelancing, I've received more than a little feedback from readers who don't think kids and cats should ever mix. They believe -- either from experience or opinion -- that kids are too rough and loud with cats.

Although this can be the case in some homes (as it is in homes with dogs, rabbits or any other type of pet), I believe it's more the exception than the rule. Don't let these preconceptions deter you from bringing an adopted kitty into your family; however, it's important to think about a few things prior to adoption.

We adopted Saffy as an adult and she immediately connected with my kids.

Your child's age and level of maturity

Not every 5-year-old child has the same personality or maturity level. My kids shared their home with a cat since the day they were born. They weren't grabby or particularly loud. Some family's homes are more chaotic in nature, and cats probably shouldn't join an environment like that -- felines prefer a more gentle and peaceful vibe.

The cat's personality

If you're able to, learn about the personality of the cat before adoption -- don't just choose your new family member based on "pretty fur" or "cute face." Many shelters offer a short history of the cat that may indicate whether or not the cat is good with children, other cats, and if he or she is active and playful or more shy. Always consider an adult cat, whose history is more clear -- plus, adult kitties are often overlooked in favor of kittens, and small children may be able to properly handle adult cats rather than fragile, tiny kittens. Give a mature feline a chance!

My son has almost always helped feed the cats.

Spend some time

Before bringing kitty home, allow your child to spend some time with him or her. Many shelters have private visiting rooms where you can observe the interaction between the child and cat.

Teach your child

Before adoption, and during the first days at home, teach your child the proper way to handle the kitty, and how to read basic cat body language. Your children's friends who visit should also receive a short lesson. If your child's friend is particularly grabby, loud and has little experience with cats, it may be best to place your kitty in a closed room during the visit.

My kids have always shared their home with cats.

Your schedule

Many families have a busy lifestyle. Although it's true that cats are quite independent, they still require daily attention, interaction and playtime. If your family is one that leaves home early in the morning and doesn't return until late evening, it's a good idea to rethink the choice to adopt a cat.

So if you have a family and are thinking about bringing a cat into your home -- yay! More homes for cats! But please remember that bringing a new cat into your home requires a lot of thought and responsibility.

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